Title: The Real Reason Women Can’t Find A Good Man
Author: Bruce Ramsey
Publisher: iUniverse
ISBN: 978-1-5320-4705-3
Pages: 200
Genre: Relationships, Marriage
Reviewed by: Jennifer Weis

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Every woman wonders at one point in her life or another, why she cannot find a good man. Where are they all hiding? Bruce Ramsey shares the message of knowing and respecting yourself and making a man work for your magic, your beauty. He looks to his own past relationships and observations and shares his thoughts and ideas on how women can find the confidence and independence to attract him, avoid being used and toyed with, and how to enhance their own self-respect and self-esteem. He provides women with tips and tricks on how to stop men they should avoid such as creepy guys, potential serial killer and even the stalker types that are so difficult to avoid. Bruce Ramsey shows women how to recognize the power they have and how they can use it to find a good man.

Who better to give advice on how to attract a good man and avoid the not so good men than well…a man! There are so many things that Ramsey says in his book that will hit home with women such as “men are only going to do to you what you let them get away with.” This book is filled with more powerful statements that help the author drive home his points. He provides tips and tricks to knowing yourself, loving yourself, and realizing the true power each holds within herself. Ramsey even writes about how women who already have the self-respect, self-esteem and a good man need to be an example, show other younger women how to remain strong, confident, and independent. He has amazing insight to what will attract men, and make men want to hold on to a good woman, as much as she would want to hold on to him.

Bruce Ramsey divides his book into two parts, the first talks about things women could be doing wrong; ways we could be attracting the wrong type of man. In the second part he discusses how to use the power within to avoid the undesirable type of man and attract the good man women tend to look for. Once women take ownership of their power and confidence they can be kryptonite to men. It is interesting to view dating and relationships through a man’s eyes; interesting to read a man’s thoughts on what women can do differently to improve their chances of finding a man worthy of their affections rather than one who will toy with their hearts. Bruce Ramsey presents a book to women that could help them change the way they look at themselves, to help them grow into a woman of confidence and help them become better wives, girlfriends, mothers, daughters, and everything else amazing that a woman is; he just wants women to recognize that amazingness within.

Every woman should read this book even if they have already found their good man. The things Ramsey talks about are things women can apply to their everyday life. Sometimes we all need that little umph to help boost the self-esteem and self-respect, and this is a wonderful way to help yourself grow. It is a fantastic read and one of those books that changes a person’s life. Pick up a copy and see if it can help change yours.