Title: The Art of Not Knowing
Author: Desiree Carlson
Publisher: Xlibris
ISBN: 978-1-6641-3727-1
Pages: 109
Genre: Non-Fiction
Reviewed by: Christa Hill
Pacific Book Review
The Art of Not Knowing is an excellent book for the time which we are living in. Author Desiree Carlson reminds us we do not need to have all the answers. The theories proposed in this book explore ways of finding answers to questions and ways of addressing the unknown. We each have a method for discovering the truth or what we believe the truth to be. In these pages, the author explores the possibility that not knowing is a form of knowing. The method described in The Art of Not Knowing has clear uses and applications which can be exercised to improve our lives and the world. To attempt to know other humans’ stories gives us the chance to engage with the world with newfound curiosity.
At some points, the author delves into the philosophies and theories which surround existence and identity. The exploration of these topics is mind-bending, affirming, and deep. Each chapter of this book is handled well and combine to create a solid book. Though at times the philosophies are complex, the author takes time to explain issues and innovative theories in layman’s English. The penultimate chapter explores inclusion and identity intersections.
The mode of address used throughout gives the reader the sense that it is possible to achieve our dreams and to believe in multiple future paths. The processes of not knowing allows for changes of mind and acceptance of our individual journeys. Each compounding theory delves into complicated sub-categories of the mind, thinking, and the pros-and-cons of each. Desiree Carlson is strict about not invalidating the lived experiences of others, while still bringing nuance to her chapters. Desiree encourages the writer in all of us to write, and at the same times begs us to be better people.
The best elements of this book are the parts which weave the author’s story with theory and theory exposition. The book is a genuine combination of story, how-to, and idea. It is enchanting to read a book about not knowing and ways of accepting the expanse of knowledge that might be beyond our reach. In its conclusion, the book challenges the idea of assumption and belonging.
Every day the world around us changes and while it is acceptable to not know, it is not acceptable to be without curiosity. The Art of Not Knowing, is for anyone that has ever said “I don’t know” and really meant that.